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So proud of BF!!!

Newstep's picture

I think that he is finally getting it!! It must be finally sinking in that BM is a manipulator loser and he doesn't have to listen to her crap. He had to go by her apartment today to drop off some paperwork. If you read back on my blog they are still finalizing the divorce after over 2 years!! She wouldn't do her part of the paperwork or fill something out wrong :? so it has taken forever!!

So they had a meeting scheduled together so that they could be sure everything was done correctly. Once she found out he wasn't going to take her to the appt. she just didnt show up. That was a month ago. Ever since then he has been trying to go by and drop off the paperwork to her. His co-worker had to mail some and file a proof of service, but the rest BF could take to her and explain what she needed to do. He had to go to this trouble since she didnt show up for the appointment.

So anyways she ignores his texts and isn't home when he goes by so finally he tracked her down today. She said she was busy painting her living room but he said too bad I will be there in 5 mins. So she comes out crying he just ignores her and explains the paperwork. She gets angry and starts yelling at him. He stayed calm and said do you have any questions?? She said yes "why don't you co-parent with me anymore? Once you and Newstep got together you don't co-parent with me" His reply "I never co-parented with you I just let you run the show, now I will no longer allow that to happen,I will parent SD when she is with me and you do the same if something major comes up we will discuss it as her parents if not I dont want to hear from you!!"

Love it!!! He rolled up his window as she was cursing him out and flipping him off. He drove off with a smile on his face!! How is that for boundaries BM!!! }:)

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dragonfly5's picture

Wow! That is the way to set boundaries! Good for him, you, and your fSD! A another victory on this site. Now that's the way to end a Friday workday!!!

Newstep's picture

Thanks Smile I hope he does too Starfish Smile He was pretty pleased with himself. He said it felt so good driving away knowing that he never had to deal with her crap again!! He said before he did whatever she said even after the seperation. Now he has seen the light and can't stand the thought of how he was before :O

Doubletakex3's picture

Way to take the power back! And BM is upset because she no longer has power over him. Too bad, so sad. Hopefully she'll put her big girl panties on and deal with it!