Ever wonder what life will be like for your skids when they get older?
For those of us with younger skids. I have both SD12 and SD23 and SD21. If I go by the shining example of the older two it will be pretty bleak SD12 is smart but very spoiled and entitled. She manages to get good grades even though EOW she is with BM she goes to school 2 days max. I don't know how she pulls it off. I can just see her in college flunking out because the mean teachers don't like her or some other lame excuse. Because left to her own devices she will not go to school. The only reason she goes on our week is because SO won't put up with it because he doesn't want to hear me bitch }:) He used to fall for her "I'm sick" line every freaking time!!
I'm thinking of her actually holding down a job. When she is "sick" and doesn't feel like going in, or when she has to actually work!! I mean it scares me to think that this kid will never move out :jawdrop: Or we will be supporting her ass forever!!
If she can't go to school on a regular basis how will she go to college or hold down a job?? I didn't think it was rocket science for parents to make these rules with kids. SO and BM let her do whatever she wants because she is "baby girl" and she is special and they think everyone should worship her like they do. SO was really good and setting up structure and boundaries for her in the beginning but now he seems to resent it. I think that this poor child doesn't stand a chance