I married my husband a little over a year ago. We both have 3 kids each. Him 3 boys, I have girls. My 2 oldest used to come every other week. They don't anymore, and say its due to the 2 hour drive. I think its because of him. My youngest dd6 is here week days and his boys are here every other week. Once we got married things started to change. My kids are treated differently and his have full run of the house. He started getting an attitude every time my oldest 2 would come to stay. He would pick arguments or act jealous if i gave them more attention than he was getting. My youngest gets sent to her room all the time, yet his kids are always playing xbox in the livingroom. My oldest weren't ever allowed to play it when they stayed. My dd6 isn't a loud kid, she's well behaved, but its like her presence annoys him. He doesn't speak to her unless he's telling her to go away or giving her rules that doesn't apply to his own kids. She used to try and talk to him, but he would have very little to say and would sometimes ignore her completely and walk away. Now she doesn't really talk to him at all and is intimidated by him. She doesn't like to be around him without me. His oldest ds12 has picked on her a lot. He hid her tv remote for 3 months before we found it and then once it was found he downloaded an app on his phone so he could turn her TV off. We thought it was broken so she didn't have tv for awhile until his younger brother told on him and H knew the whole time and didn't say anything. He didn't get punished at all, dd was told she wasn't allowed in their room anymore. We've had several talks about this. He said he would change but things have only gotten worse. So, I'm leaving. I was just wondering if anyone else has been through this?