Step-sister doesn't quit. Enough is Enough!!
I haven't posted in a few weeks cause everything has been good, Until today.
My step-sister has upped her game. Now she's spreading lies not just about me, but about step-dad too. I had brunch with my cousins(step-dad's brother son and daughter), we're pretty close in age (he's 23 and she's 19), so we've always just click. My cousin asks me how's everything going with step-sister and I tell him the truth-which is not good. My other cousin now tells me that step-sister has bee saying things recently. I asked her what has she been saying now? Turns out step-sister has been telling people that she walked in me and step-dad having sex and she overheard him saying that he's going to leave my mom for me.............................
How does a person respond to that!!?? I ask her who told her that, she tells me that step-sister told her that and she's been saying the same thing to other people too. This girl is out to get me. I have a target on my back and I don't know what to do!! I ask them both if they know whose she been telling this too; they say they don't know. luckly they don't believe her. I asked them if they told their parents and they didn't. If she's saying that to people in the family, what is she telling other people (she has a big mouth)
She's describing me as a characterless human being that would basically hurt anyone i want-including my own mom! For the past 3 years, I felt really guilting for developing feelings for my step-dad, but i kept it to myself and no one was supposed to find out (step-sister ratted me out). Things between step-dad and myself haven't changed at all and he promised that he'll always have my back. Fortunaetly both mom and step-dad have had my back sice this messed up situation started. I even told my step-dad that if he starts to resent me or wants to back away from me a bit, i'll understand. Step-dad goes to me that i've done noting wrong and step-sister is in the wrong. He also told me that he's not taking sides or playing favorties. He's just standnig up for what's right,; he even said he loves my sister and myself as such as me loves step-sister. He assured me that none of this is my fault and that my step-sister needs to grow up. (Therpay is going great btw. my therapist and me have come to the conculsion that i've been combining my longing for a father figure and attraction together. Learning to differenaite the both )
I don't know if i should tell him this or not. It's step-sister 16th birthday next week and I don't want any problems cause if anything happens ,I just know that my stepsister and her mom are gonna blame me for it. Don't know if step-dad is going to do anything for her birthday-not my business, not my problem. After hearing the rumour about me, I don't think me and step-sister will ever have a brother sister relaionship ever, even if she does ever apologize, I don't trust her. My sister already doesn't want anything to do her with. Guess i'll just follow her lead. My sister is saying that step-sister is showing signs of Narcissistic personality disorder and she needs therapy. I'm going to keep that to myself tho.
OH almost forgot to mention, i've been seeing this guy for 2 weeks. Not dating or anything just going out for coffee, lunch, dinner, bowling, stuff like that. Met him at the gym. He's 28, 6ft 4, very musclar, and he's a police officer!. He's really nice, caring, and funny too. Yeah we've just been texting and hanging out a bit. Noting overnight tho cause i live at home with mom and step-dad, and not ready to cross that bridge yet. Orientation for med school is in 2 weeks!! Really excited about that too!!