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Disgusting SS peed on the toilet seat again!

MyMistake's picture

I cant's stand living with SS15 anymore, I feel like I need a plan to keep my sanity and take care of myself, but its so hard when DH is always traveling on business trips and not being a dad to his kids.

This morning I woke up early when DH left for his flight went to the bathroom and flushed and then went back to bed. At 7:30 I woke up again, went to the bathroom and there was urine all over the toilet seat and the toilet had not been flushed. :jawdrop:

I poke my head into SS room and glare at him while he "pretends" to be asleep. His favorite thing to do is wait in bed until he hears me making breakfast and serving it on the table so that he gets out of helping to set the table and he can just saunter down and begin eating. Well, I'm sure my eyes were burning like coals into him because two seconds later he opened his eyes, looked at me and said "What?"

"What did I tell you to do with the toilet seat when you have to pee? There is pee all over the seat right now!" I stated angrily. He comes up with a lame excuse about how it was the middle of the night, dark, whatever. I told him I already went today after the sun came out and he had to have done it between 6am and 7:30 and to clean it up.

He tried to clean it with just some tp and not use cleaning spray or anything. When he finally did it right he left without even flushing. :O

Then later when he comes downstairs I ask him to feed the dog. After doing it he says "See you didn't have to tell me to get dressed or feed the dog or brush my teeth this morning, I've been really good today!" Are you kidding me?! :?

I told him that he is 15 and I shouldn't have to tell him to do those things. EVERYONE does those things without waiting for someone to tell them except for you, dear SS.

Our entire day continues like this, what a pain.

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herewegoagain's picture

Ah, it's somewhat of a men thing...sigh...My DH used to do this! I kept telling him his mom was disgusting that didn't even teach him to pee! I was talking to someone where I live and her husband started laughing cause of the same thing...WTH? Anyway, put some Lysol wipes or similar on top of the toilet...remind them EVERY FREAKING time!

hismineandours's picture

Perhaps you should go pee in his bed and then say, "sorry, it was the middle of the night I thought it was the toilet". Idk-sometimes talking to people does no good and you have to show them how things feel. May seem immature-but maybe he would get it that it's gross to sit, lay, or otherwise touch anyone else's urine.

SanAntonioSoccerMom's picture

I am the only female in my house with 4 males. Not uncommon at all. Gross...yes, but not uncommon.

MyMistake's picture

Well I think its disgusting, even if it is "normal". Sometimes he smears his poop on the wall in the bathroom too and on the cabinet, and when he picks his nose they stay on the wall in his bedroom or on our couch in the living room. To me it is repulsive behavior. I grew up with a younger brother who never behaved like this, nor does my DH. SS is just plain gross. He also constantly has his dirty fingers in his mouth and (due to his Aspergers/OCD I guess) he will shove his fingers up his nose if he's touched something gross, for example his butt crack, trash or something on the subway etc. He might even sneak in a lick of whatever gross thing he touched too, even though his dad and I warn him not too because he is always getting sick when he does this. Maybe I'm just done being sympathetic.