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Being apart of the same “mom” circle

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Hey Everyone! 
 

First, I wanted to say a big thank you for the support when I used to be on this website FREQUENTLY. There used to be some serious struggles where I didn't know if I could make it through. So thank you! 
 

I know this isn't really the biggest problem, but I do appreciate anyone who reads this. 
 

BM’s return!

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Okay. After the times of being on this site and venting and receiving excellent advice I'm learning to deal with the BM. I can't stand her but I'm just staying out of the way. My DH doesn't really get me involved anymore due to my request. However it's amazing how things are still so frustrating at times. 
 

Out of my control

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Normally when I get angry at the BM of my stepsons, I vent and say horrible shit. I talk about all the things I disagree with and how she's a bad mom. The BM has been in my life for seven years now. Seven. For a lot of you this is nothing, but for me I feel like I've aged tremendously since the moment I've met her. 

Oh the fun in our household

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Guys, I'm tired. I'm exhausted of dealing with the BM's bullshit. I really am. You know what's the worst part, one of my SS's have been living with us since the summer. He's 8 and he's been thriving here. In fact, he's my sidekick. We go everywhere together! I know all of his friends and thier parents, my husband and I are the ones that talk to the teachers, and it started to feel like the three of us were our own family.  Then about a couple months ago, he went to go visit his BM and his two brothers for the weekend.

The constant anger towards BM - full on vent right now. (May turn into novel)

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I am constantly angry towards the BM. She is the embodiment of everything I cannot stand in a human being, not realizing until I met her how many traits I absolutely hate in person. I cannot stand to hear her voice, her name, anything about her. But it's to the point where I need to get some therapy. I need someone to talk to and vent to becasue I can't do with my DH. He's getting angry hearing about me bitching all the time or having a comment even when it is about something miniscule. 

Movie and Video Game Ratings

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Hey Everyone, 

 

Okay - I need to vent for a minute here. BM thinks it is acceptable for my SS's (twins that are 7 and 11) allowed to play Grand Theft Auto, Call of Duty, Fort Nite - for a few years now. Now I find out that she's been allowing the 7 year olds to watch Jaws, Tomorrow War, and a ton of other PG-13 movies. What I don't understand is, there is a rating on it. There is no reason to have look anything up. You can tell right there who it is meant for, and 7 is not the age. 

How to get over the bitterness

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Hi Everyone, 

I wanted to join this group, so that I can get insight on how to deal with things as well as help those who need it as well. I have friends that are married, friends that have kids, and friends that are divorced, however none of them seem to be the step parent dealing with another one's kid and their ex. This is one situation that I feel very alone in and I need help figuring out how to navigate certain scenarios in life.