Is this normal? What does it mean? I’m disengaging idk what else to do
DH and I are pregnant with our second child. Yep... that's two under two! My ss(age16) hasn't asked me once about this pregnancy or the baby. Or how I'm feeling or how the baby is doing? When we first told him about being pregnant again he was at his bio moms and asked the due date. Since then nothing else. Our household for Covid, my pregnant, our 1 year old and my husband. He never once texted us to ask how we were. Or when he came back asked if we were ok. It's like living with a stranger and it's super uncomfortable. I come from a very big and loving family. And I feel he's lack or caring or interest in the kids is pushing me away. I'm not sure if this is normal for a teenager. Or if there is something deeper going on.
with our first baby he made every moment (announcement, gender reveal, baby shower, our anniversary) about him or my husband and his ex wife and what they did. Never letting us celebrate us building our family even when we made sure to include him in all. This time around we didn't include him in the gender reveal. Mainly because the first time he put his head in his hands and sulked. On camera and in front of all our friends and family. So we didn't want to put him in thag situation again. But like I said, I come from a big family much blended and everyone is more loving and caring even the kids and teenagers. It's clear he isn't happy or excited for us growing our family. What do i do? I've since disengaged from him so I can enjoy my life moments I've waited for without his negativity. But I'm starting to worry it's been my entire pregnancy and not a once asking anything anything about me or the baby.
help. Tell me it's normal or common and nothing to worry about. I'm afraid when the baby gets here he will begin tj act out or do something to try make life harder than it needs to be.