it's been about 7-8 years since dh has had visitation with the kid. long story short, we dated before hand. there was no formal visitation/child support until bm found out we moved in together. so then we got it.

issue: sd 13 didnt' call on my birthday. ungrateful little brat. i have to open my home, finances, life up to her and she didnt' even call. we're due with our second child any day now. i REALLY don' want her at the hospital now. i mean, for her to "get excited" over the birth of our child, but yet she doesn't give a sh!t about me on my birthday, OH HELL NO. she's called me in the past on my previous birhtdays.

i don't think i'm overreacting....but what do you think?