Oh boy. Sometimes the SDs are chatty cathys.
We had family Christmas on Sunday with DH's mom's side of the family. Sometimes the skids show up, sometimes they don't. They all did this time, including the 21 year kid SS is living with. Which was pretty funny because BM's family was having a family Christmas, too, OSD didn't even tell BM she was here (she lives a state away), MSD said she had to "work" but mysteriously didn't go. I have no idea what SS said, I have been avoiding him. However, the kid he lives with and BM are like besties (she has no friends that are over 21 unless you count family) so I am sure she was pissed.
OSD drops this bombshell - she went to buy a car in the state she lives in now and she is told her credit is too low. She doesn't understand (she really does have learning disabilities) and I don't know who but someone told her to look up her credit report and see why it was like that. BM took $15,000 out in loans on OSD's social since she turned 18. Which is less than 2 years ago. BM tried to say that she took those out when OSD was in flight attendant school (which was a whopping three months long). OSD checks the report herself, nope, they had all been taken out after OSD finished school. DH told her that the only way she wasn't going to have to pay them herself is to turn BM in. Of course she won't. I told my Prosecuting Attorney boss and he said, "That's criminal." He knows all about BM's antics.
Oh, and MSD told us how BM pays her to hang out with her. $40 for movies, $100 for shopping, and BM doesn't make her use any of that money. MSD said, "That's the only reason I hang out with her." And apparently BM had copies made of the child support card and gave them to OSD and MSD. MSD said, "Mom told me she put $40 on this," to OSD. OSD said, "Mom said I can't use it anymore!" And OSD said, "Actually, dad, that's your money she is giving us!" I about died laughing.