BM's and Mother's Day
Since DH FINALLY decided to grow some balls and actually tell SD that he will have to be at work Friday night while she is there, and she still wants to come, I have decided to take all 3 of the girls to Hot Pots. It is a place where you can pick your own pottery, ETC and hand paint them. They fire them for you and you pick it up and TAH DAH! Well, I know that I want the girls to go ahead and make DH something for Father's Day and his Birthday because they are close together, but should I let SD make something for BM for Mother's Day? I was thinking about letting the girls paint something for my mom (nana) and DH's mom (Grandma XYZ) for Mother's Day, so I am sure that SD will ask to make her mom something as well. Maybe something cheap? If this would have been 4 months ago, I would have let SD make something spectacular for BM, but the Hell that BM has put my family through lately makes me want to punch her in her fat face, not pay for a Mother's Day gift. I just don't want to upset SD by telling her "NO, you can't make your mom something for Mother's Day, but here make something for my mom". What do you guys think??