It Just Got Worse
I will skip straight to the worst. SD16 went to hit DH and he put her to the ground to restrain her. Then she was saying her back hurt and she's going to live with her grandpa and she's taking it to court so she never has to live here again.
Previous to this DH had told she couldn't go do something. She was doing her thing that she does by following him around saying "Dad - dad - daaad- dad". He was telling her to knock it off while walking away. Few minutes later he comes around the corner saying he is headed to town to turn off her phone. She is crying talking on her phone.
He told me she wouldn't knock off her whining and complaining about how mean I am to her and how I don't want her here. She was blaming everyone for being horrible to her. He was telling her she's the one who is rude and mean. She punched the wall (not the first time). Since she wouldn't stop he said he was shutting off her phone. She flipped out worse and lunged for him. He restrained her to the ground.
He left to go shut off her phone. She had a friend pick her up. He came back without shutting off her phone and said the line was really long so he will do it later. Ugh!
I tried to piece together what I saw and what he told me. Hope it made sense.
Advice please, please, please.