I need some serious help. My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years. I helped raise three out of four of his kids. All are now grown except for the youngest who is almost 17. I have no kids of my own. The problem I am having is the fact I have been trying to conceive for the past year and have not been able to do so. It really has been an emotional struggle for me to figure out that it may not happen for me. This really,really hurts. To rub salt in the wounds we found out one month ago that my 19 yr old step daughter is pregnant(out of wedlock by a complete loser).