DH went off on me (Up Date)
HD and I still aren’t talking. After him snapping at me for giving my opinion it really hurt. I put all my efforts and energy in helping him out with SD7 and SS12 after his mom basically threw them out. Now, he seems to think that since she returned after two weeks and now wants the kids back I should have no say and feels stuck in the middle of BM and I. When I express my feelings about the situation of him saying what he said to me he ignores it and pretends he’s hurt and upset at me fore feeling hurt. He said he snapped and he’s under so much stress and he apologized but I don’t think he really cares. He just needs it to go back to normal. I’ve been coming to my moms house now and staying away from my home. I do go back to sleep but then leave in the morning. I feel awkward facing his kids after he yelled at me “Don’t tell me what the fu** to do with MY kids”... I’m sure BM heard and felt like he was defending her which I believe he was. Must make her really happy. DH has been sleeping on the couch for the last couple of days and I’ve been in the room alone dealing with our crying baby and getting no sleep. It’s like I’m being punished for putting my foot down which I’m sure is exactly what’s going on. I haven’t done anything for him, his kids in the past 2 days. I’m very hurt this time. During my pregnancy she tried to commit suicide and him and the kids stuck together crying which I understand but he also neglected my pregnancy and I went through it alone until the last month that I left and all of a sudden he wanted to be involved. It honestly was a very depressing and lonely time in my life. I thought he learned his lesson but here I am again.