He comes over and is so rude. He will leave to go to school and not say goodbye or anything - just walk out. He stays up in his room most of the time but if he is in the common areas and BS3 tries to talk to him, he just says leave me alone or who cares or something like that. He told me that my cooking sucked this weekend (after I had spent over an hour working on it) - thank you very much - DH yelled at him but no punishment whatsoever. Then he was going to his mom's yesterday for mother's day and DH wanted him to stay so I could open my cards and of course he said why do we have to stay? who cares? she's not my mom. Thanks SS - Who is the one that helps you with your homework when you need it? Who TRIES to buy you the clothes you like and have the snacks and toiletries you enjoy at the house for you? Who picks out and pays for your Christmas and Birthday presents because god knows if DH did it, you wouldn't get half of it!! And all I am is a big fat nothing to you... I can't believe that he is so rude and would be so disrespectful and hurtful. And so DH told him he could just leave. So really no discipline so why would he act any differently? The one time I told my mom that my stepfather was not my dad she slapped me across the face and said I can't believe you would say that after all he's done for you. And I never badmouthed him again!!! I love my stepsons but I am so hurt by this... he doesn't need to treat our whole family like crap because he is a spoiled, entitled teenager!!