JUST NEED TO VENT!
Ok so this afternoon BM calls DH to try and tell him that she is moving back here. Now she has been saying this for over a year now. She claims that her BF bought a house here. She lives in a different state right now. She was trying to tell DH that she was going to enroll SD in school where she was living but could not tell him what school it would be. He told her that they could discuss this when and if she was actually moved here.
Then she started yelling and screaming that she did not want MOMMYOFTWO getting her ready for school and taking her every morning like last year. My DH said "MOMMYOFTWO does a fabulous job of getting SD ready and to school every morning. You chose not to be involved with SD's school stuff last year and you have no one to thank but yourself for missing that" Then it came out that BM was mad because SD wants me to take her to school and get her ready everyday just like last year.
Um excuse me lazy moron BM but YOU were the one who up and moved to another state and YOU were the one who decided to only take EOW visitation instead of 50/50 and YOU were the one who did not bother to show up to ANYTHING at school even though I told you about EVERYTHING that went on! This crap just really ticks me off! She went to 2 things the ENTIRE year last year and then wants to try and somehow blame it on me! I guess I have more power than I thought! And come to find out she was here in town at least once a week the whole year yet she NEVER bothered to come spend extra time with SD.
SD was so embarrassed by her that she would not even tell people at school who she was. She told one teacher that BM was "A friend of my moms (ME)." I guess really I should not get worked up about this whole thing because even if by some miracle she does move back it wont matter anyways because DH is the CP during school so SD goes to school where we live anyways. BM is ALL TALK! She likes to run her mouth about how she should be in control and this is how its going to be but she doesn't follow through with anything. It is too much work for her to actually take care of her kid but she wouldn't want anyone to think that she doesn't. It just really irritates me to deal with lazy trashy drama queens who have nothing better to do than run their mouth about stupid stuff so they won't "feel" like the piece of sh** parent that they really are. I really think she needs a life!
Sorry for the long vent! I feel much better now!