it will be SS12’s 13th birthday in a few days. 

Of course this has BM1 in a MOTY uproar. She’s seen her child 2x this year TOTAL. 

She is over $3k behind on child support and license has been suspended. 

I will start with CS and then move into birthday because one won’t make sense without the other. In fact, none of it makes sense. 

BM’s Uncle died in March. This was the 2nd time she had seen SS this year-and really arraignments were made with her sister and mother for SS to spend time with BM’s family because BM was too busy treating them like shit to give a flying rat’s about SS. BM’s mom downloaded me on all that went on with her-another day another vent. 

BM inherited Uncle’s car. Of course, she can’t drive it because her license is suspended. She texts/tries to call SO to complain about this. Like what is he going to do? He can’t (and won’t) tell the court to be like “oh no, nevermind I don’t want CS”. Stupid. 

So so like I said-SS’s birthday is coming up. She calls him for the first time since MARCH to tell him she wants to pick him up on his birthday and take him to see Infinity War. His birthday falls in a school night. When SS tells me this, I tell him, it’s up to your dad, but if it were up to me it would be a no, because it’s a school night for you and work night for your dad and we just can’t be hunting you down at where ever she decides to drop you at 8-9pm. Sorry man. (She in the past, has picked him up with promises to return him, only to call and tell us “he’s with ___ at their house”-sometimes people neither we nor SS have ever met before. But when the D calls, BM must answer or the world will fall off its axis. Sorry kids!) 

In addition to the fact, bitch can’t drive. I’m pissed to a point where if it wouldn’t effect SS’s birthday-I’d call the cops on her the second she pulled out of the drive way for driving with no license-but SO ended up telling him no for my exact reasons anyway sooo. 

THEN she promises SS a cell phone. No. She will not have a lifeline into this house to torture SS with her lies and broken promises. No. 

THEN 2 days later she texts SO a breakdown of her check and a long explanation. She apparently worned 80 hours the last two weeks and earned $315-now if you’re good at math she must be waitressing and received 0 tips for that to be possible. Anyway of the 315-213 was withheld for arrears and SS health insurance. She goes on this long rant about being a single mom of 2 kids to support. BITCH you have 3 kids-SS is YOUR KID TOO. And if you’re that hard up for money why don’t you take baby #3’s daddy for CS. OH WAIT! You don’t know who that is! She then goes on about “what’s the point in even working?” Uhhh well not going to jail dumbass because that’s next! 

Looks like that extra extra monthly cell phone bill isn’t so feisible now is it. She just tried to make him a FB kids messenger profile too. Just goes to show how out of touch she is with SS because he already has one that he talks to BM’s mother and sister on all the time. 

I literally cant even. MOTY. SMDH