"Were we all accidents?"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA oh how I wanted to say yes, however I handled the situation quite well::
SD12 to me: "did you and dad plan to have this baby?" (I am currently 31 weeks and this was asked at 13 weeks)
ME: "No we did not plan to have this little one, we got pregnant on accident..."
SD12 interrupting me: "Oh. Hmm, were we all accidents?"
(Giggling to myself a little) ME: You know I'm not sure. I think your parents definitely planned on having you and "SS13" (I know this is a lie, but I'm a nice person) but I think they were definitely surprised by "SS20"... but you know what? Sometimes the biggest surprises in our lives, and the things we don't necessarily plan turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to us! Your dad and I are very excited about this baby and I know you guys are the best thing that happened to your parents."
See? I can lie right to her pretty little face. She went right home and told her mother I said they were all accidents and BM never wanted them... REALLY you little manipulative liar!?
BM calls my SO to inform him she is on her way to MY house to kick my a$$ and who the Eff do I think I am calling her children accidents.
Okay first off, REALLY classy threatening to lay hands on another person, let alone someone who is pregnant... and second GROW UP!! Obviously you cannot 100% trust the word of ANY 12 year old, let alone SD ... so why not act like an adult and ASK WHAT WAS REALLY SAID!?
One of my few and far between interactions with BM... she refuses to acknowledge that I exist except when she is running her mouth about me to Skids or other people.
GROW UP C*%T!!