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OF FREAKING COURSE!!!!

Mom2mine's picture

So....DH is staying home from work this week bc I am expecting to go into labor pretty much any day now....he also has family coming into town this weekend-so we were supposed to get the skids for the day on Sat since BM threw a fit about switching weekends as in the past three months she has only had them for 5 weekends bc she has been accommodating n scheduling wise-that's just how it has worked out....while I love those kids-they do not listen-it is extremely stressful to have them here n DH let's a lot of stuff slide bc he "doesn't want to ride their butts the whole time they r with us" iMHO asking that they b polite, respectful, do what they r asked, not talk back, n have good table manners is not asking a whole lot from an almost 7 yr old n 9 yr old.....even my 1 yr old says Please n Thank u!!!!! Ugh!!! But for them....it's too much to ask!!!
Back to my vent-so he is supposed to b here to help ME out with our 1 yr old n to drive me to the hospital in the event that I go into labor.....so OF FREAKING COURSE THE SKIDS WILL NOT ONLY B HERE ALL FLIPPING WEEK!!!!!! but he readily agreed to take them the whole weekend as well!!!!!!

I sure hope I do go into labor.....I'm gonna drive my damn self to the flipping hospital just to get away from his ass n his kids!!!!!! Ugh!!!! I'm so upset I could freaking scream!!!! But I'm hormonal so I'm just crying instead.....goodness I need to b able to drink again to get through this BS.....sigh!!! Sad

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Totalybogus's picture

Why did he agree to have the kids for the week knowing you could go into labor at any time and knowing the discomfort you are in at the end stage of your pregnancy? Jeez, the man should know better at this point. This is the fourth child.

Madam Hedgehog's picture

wow. that's pretty much unforgivable in my book. i'm not even pregnant (yet) and DH and I have already decided that someone else will be taking care of the kids on my due date if that's what i want (which it is). it would be stretch even if the kids were really behaved (which my SSs ~usually~ are) but in your case your Dh ought to put your health and your unborn babies health first and send the skids somewhere else.

since you're already stressed, i'd really look into getting a friend or family member to drive you to the hospital and forget about DH's feelings completely until the baby is born and okay.