BM wants to only play by the rules when it benefits her. She is working to become a lawyer and she can't even read her own court order. Phone calls are between 5 and 530 mon wed fri and sat. She thinks because she works past 530 that she can just call whenever. Why have a time if you can call whenever?

Custody is split 50/50 between bm and dh. this just was decided and agreed upon in may. with bm killing pedestrian while skid was with her do we go back to court for primary custody since she tried lying and covering up what happened? judge has her under contempt of court umbrella since she has twice made emergency motions for full custody over 1 me and 2 lying about drug overdose by dh. this costs us soooo much money.

do we let it slide and hold for ammo or jump on court to take primary legal custody away?

I think it's safe to say that, again if I have said it, I don't like my stepson. He is almost like his BM. I don't like to retrain him when he comes back to our house. He tried telling me this morning that he doesn't like cheerios yet he has eaten them plenty in the past. Also when i threatened his lunchable for lunch he sat right down and ate his cheerios. I get frustrated when he just guesses at reading and will sound each letter out yet guess a totally different word. BM spoils him and gets him on weekends so he can sleep in, eat in bed and do nothing but veg out.

ss6 and I are not talking in our house. we don't have to even try and we just don't speak. I think he is scared of me because since i have been the one over the last year that has given rules and done the discipline. BM just came back in may and only spoils the kid rotten. she is the disneyland mom on the weekends and summer with no homework or rules. she ruins dinners with candy before exchanges and gives toys each time kid goes with her which is 3 weekends a month. dh feels he is loosing his sons love and only bursts after he gets annoyed.