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Lies of BM. I'm Upset

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Submitted by mndblwn on Thu, 11/01/2012 - 4:10pm

Stepson has a bad cough. He missed school Monday after coming back from BM's weekend visit. He went to school the rest of the week and went trick or treating. The cough came back from going out to get candy. We asked BM if he could stay home this weekend so that he didn't have to miss more school since it the cough had come back. She of course said no because she wasn't giving up her time. WELL she then added that if he was fed regularly and healthy then he wouldn't be sick and it's best that he is in her care for the weekend.

Lack of Interest

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Submitted by mndblwn on Thu, 11/01/2012 - 2:21pm

My baby girl is my everything. My stepson not so much. I want to make him feel apart of the family but when I feel he doesn't want to be then I stop trying. He is just like his mother. Lazy, wants things handed to him, no respect for others you name it. I'm tired of finding poop on the toilet seat (he is 8), I'm tired of the rude attitude towards DH who truly makes sure this kid has all the necessities in life (I'm not talking about toys and garbage) and I'm tired of him acting like he needs to hide from me to get his way.

Custody Questions?? Need Clarifications

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 10/29/2012 - 9:49am

So DH and BM have joint physical and legal custody at the moment. Skid lives and goes to school with us and visits BM on weekends, holidays and summers. She moved four hours away from us. DH is now going for primary physical custody because BM is below her 40% visitation and BM won't help take skid to his heart doctor appts, pay for medical insurance or help when she is supposed to with medical bills.

DH wants to be able to tell BM that skid isn't going with her because skid is sick and needs to stay home to get better. Can he do that with primary custody??

anxiety rollercoaster

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 10/22/2012 - 7:09pm

Here we again sit in a court battle with BM. we have caught her lying about where ss goes while he is with her. dh is going for full custody now and is sick of the games. we wait for her attorneys response to our 104 page response from her original plea to change driving arrangements. this bm is unreal. ss has a heart condition. caregivers need to know that if something goes wrong that immediate attention is needed. bm doesnt tell anyone caring for ss of this condition.

EX Removal

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Submitted by mndblwn on Fri, 10/05/2012 - 6:45pm

It's a fact. My DH has a son with devil. We follow the CO perfectly and it's not good enough for her. What can we do? My husband is so stressed because his ex is always pulling something. Do we give his son to her and pay child support? Fight for the full custody my husband deserves and be miserable until he is 18? This woman knows she can't have her son all the time and chose the visits she gets now but she hates doing the driving to get him. Should we always give in to her so that we live a good life?

Does anyone have advice/?

Being Taken To Court

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 09/03/2012 - 9:59pm

BM has written a motion to change transportation for visitation. we live 4 hrs away and because she wanted 3 weekends a month she agreed to do the driving. she doesn't like it now that she has to pay the bill herself. it was all ok last year when she had a boyfriend to pay for gas. She is asking the DH drive halfway for dropoff and pickup 3 weekends a month. she is also asking for skid to fly on airplane and split the plane ticket 3 weekends a month THEN she wants us to pay for her attorney because we supposedly are so mean and not giving in to her or compromising.

Asian Elk

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 07/09/2012 - 7:56pm

BM strikes again....this time it's an elk. She had picked up skid for her summer vacation. They spent fourth of july in our town before driving home where she lives. DH gets a call at 845pm. It's her telling him they just hit an elk. Both her and skid are ok. Here's the funny parts. She drives a two door yaris and it's her moms car, she has left our town about 8pm yet wants our judge to make DH drive skid to her halfway so that skid doesn't get home late where she lives and she is only down to one car now.

Doing the Most Yet Hated the Most

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Submitted by mndblwn on Tue, 06/19/2012 - 7:22pm

I try to do all I can to better my stepson and give him opportunities in life. I fought for him to play baseball and watched his BM miss every game and also make him miss 3 games due to her craziness. I've signed him up for swimming lessons this summer since his BM didn't last summer like she said and who knows if she is going to this summer. I make sure he has proper clothing for summer and winter. I reward him when he does good in school or does the chores he is supposed to.

More Excuses and Lies

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Submitted by mndblwn on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 8:56am

CO states that both parents are to carry medical insurance on child as well as split bills that aren't paid by insurance. BM has chosen to not carry medical insurance on child because we won't help her with driving (remember she moved away and wants child 3 weekends a month). Now when it comes to childs medical bills she claims she hasn't received them in the mail either regular or certified. She told us before she wasn't going to pay any money to DH only to the facility and now she says she won't pay any statement that is sent to her only receipts of payments by us.

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