So our court date went great. BM was told off by judge and told she was poison to her 6 yr old son. The judge signed into order the visitation and phone schedule. BM either is deaf or just plain stupid. Friday night the boy had to wait at our house for the phone call from his mother before he could go spend the night. BM never called during her time frame so I unplugged the phone from the wall and took ss to his friends house. When I arrived home BM had sent texts to DH asking where her son was and stating that the people the boy was staying with were not answering the phone. this is an hour after her time frame as well as bugging this family and her son while he is having fun with his friends. she is obviously not only going to be a pain in our butt but also the families of whoever her son is around. I have been replying to every text and email not DH. Sometimes he doesn't even know what is going on. When I as my DH tell BM that she missed her time and to stop bugging the boy and that the other family isn't following her life schedule she then comments that DH has sent the boy to the house because of his drug and alcohol issues. What kind of comment is that? She was buried by the judge himself that no drugs or alcohol played any role is our latest issue. So after that comment from her, I write back that she can keep flying that flag because we have the copy of how well that one flew and to stop bugging the boy. Her last comment was that she has a right to talk to her son and to stop harassing her. I understand the reason why she starts to act so dumb is because I've put her in her place and she is now pissed. How is us responding to her constant text messages harassing her? This woman is unbelievable. Her time to call is mon, wed, fri and sat between 5 and 530. Anything before or after gets to be ignored. I've started to keep the phone unplugged before and after that half an hour. I figure we can try and train her to now be retarded but I'm not sure. We can ignore the cell phone because it stays on silent. DH calls his son during those times and if he doesn't get ahold of the boy then he just says it is what it is. He doesn't text her wanting to know where his son is or even threaten to call the cops. She goes balistic when she can't get ahold of her son. Luckily the court order doesn't state that the boy has to be home or answer therefore we can live our life and not be home yet of course we let the boy call later that night or the next day. She left for 4 yrs and now expects to have every right possible yet she still never supplies medical insurance or clothing. We still pack a bag for the boy which is fine completely yet she hoards all the toys she buys him at her house so why wouldn't she buy clothes and hoard those? It would make life easier yet that would mean she was smart for once. I know it's going to take time but I wish this woman would disappear.