Am I on the right track here?
I would love some advice from my fellow Steptalkers!
I'm going to bullet to be concise and easier to follow:
*Skids are on BM's medical insurance, which DH pays half of
*BM and DH have joint physical and legal custody of SSs, and they divide custody time right down the line 50/50 (except when BM travels- so technically DH has them more)
*Nowhere in their CO does it state that SSs must see a doctor that BM decides upon simply because they are covered under her insurance. It is basic language that states that all medical decisions must be agreed upon.
So, am I right in thinking that legally DH could say to her, "I do not agree that our minor children should continue to see a doctor who is located 19 miles from my house and 31 from yours, BM. We need to find a doctor for the boys who is between our houses."?????
This doctor business has just become ridiculous and the reason she won't find a closer doctor has NOTHING to do with the quality of care the boys receive, believe me- it is a "power", "because-I-can" thing and I think she thinks she has all the control over this. But she doesn't, right?
I am eager to hear your thoughts!