i have a 10 yr old SD, she lies, steals, manipulates, gossips, and is just plain awful. She also is not biologically my husbands. Her bio mom cheated and she was the result. I have 4 of my own children prior to my current husband and he has two daughters. His ex is a convicted drug addict among many other crimes. Shes a hot mess, so the girls live with us. Husband works 6-7 days a week at times and i am the one raising the 6 children. The 10 yr old has stolen money from me on numerous occasions, goes in my room and takes my clothes, my shoes, and misc other things. I find it in her room under the bed, hidden in drawers and she then lies about it. She contacts MY family members and gossips to them, causing issues that i have to clean up. It has gotten to the point i have to send her to her granfmas house to just have a bbq and invite my family. I HATE her. I want her to go live with her mother so bad!! He bio got out of rehab anf is trying to get her life together and i just want the SD to go live with her. My husband refuses to allow it, but the SD does not fit in our family! I cringe when i wake up knowing i will have to even walk past her. I cant stand her! .... it is ruining my marriage, he wants to go on family vacations or day trips and i refuse because i cant stand to be aroud her. I hate her whiney vice, i hate when she speaks cuz i know its gonna be a lie, i have to lock up my room just to go into the kitchen cuz i am afraid shes gonna take something. I feel like a prisoner, and i wanna smack the shit out of her... she looks and acts just like her mom.... i wish she would go live with her!!!