So everyday I call SO when I'm leaving work. (We don't really text too much) I call him today, he tells me BM is taking SS17 out to eat because.............. drum roll...........
She will be in the area and thought she would ask. I laugh.. in the area??!! She lives 10 minutes away!! So, SO asks SS15 if he is going out to eat with BM. He says no. SO asks him if she asked him.. he goes no... Me: she didn't even ask SS15 WOW! SD13 Isn't home she's at my uncles with her BFF (his stepdaughter)
Anyways, when SO is telling me this I assumed it was VIA text. When I get home we were talking about it and he said something (honestly forgot) but, i said oh she didn't text you.. he says no she called me.
OKK, here is my problem. It reallllyyyyyy pisses me off when he answers her calls. I go why did you answer?? I try really hard to not let it bother me. I get it! They have to talk once in awhile etc. No big deal. BUT, are the kids in her care.. No, therefore no reason to answer a single phone call from her. If he didn't answer she probably would have texted and fine ok.
So I get pissed. SO gets mad. "This happens every time." I go you really just don't get it. You don't. He goes I'm going to have to talk to her... NO SHIT!! You 100% don't need to answer a single call from her. I said when they are 40 you going to be answer the phone. He goes are they 40? I say, no but, they are not under her care so no reason too.
He brings up well if she didn't text me you would be pissed. EHHH WRONG!! We were joking on SS17s birthday in July that she didn't text you when she took him out to lunch. His response (pathetic if I'll add) we'll because SS17 told me. SO WHAT MAKES TODAY ANY DIFFERENT!! Geeezzzzz.
BM is predictable. Even though it was her and her husband that took out SS17. It will lead into something. (I'll add they went to a pizza place that is a dive with a bar)
I know it's not that serious but, it makes me so f'n pissed when he answers her. Useless piece of crap that she is. Ya know, because it's easier for him to just answer.