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Major blowout.

MissK03's picture

Can't really explain much right now ... but SS19 has disrespected me for the last time. This happened yesterday but came to a head tonight. SO is in completely shut down mode currently. He can NOT handle shit IMO. He basically hasn't said a word in 2 hours. 

SS19 ran to BMs supposedly... THANK GOD!! I was going to stay at a hotel in town but creeps were roaming the parking lot and yeah.. wasn't doing that so I'm back home. 

I told SO this is it. Basically it's me or SS19. The situation is bigger then just me because SS18 and SD15 feel the same way that I do. We are all DONE with him. This can NOT go on anymore. 

SS19 is supposed to be moving in to BMs house when her and her husband move out of state anyways.. LET HIM GO SO! LET HIM GOOOOO!!! 

SS19 manipulates every fucking situation just like BM and he is destroying his father.  I said to SO you can't let him control you anymore!!! Plus a ton of other things..

More details to follow. 

He told me to "shut the fuck up" And slammed the back door when I was on my hands and knees cleaning muddy dog prints all over the kitchen because I asked him to go around. I had the entrance to the kitchen blocked with two laundry baskets. He proceeded fo ask me what happened..

I said to him said dog drank water, got it everywhere and then stepped in with his muddy feet. He then said I'll take my shoes off. Me frustrated... I said please SS19 for the love of god just walk around!! Proceeded with the slamming of the door  and the the "shut the fuck up"

He then spun this situation tonight in to bizarre twist etc. 

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shamds's picture

To tell you to "shut the fuck up" and not rain hell on the disrespect he showed to you, he's not being a respectful husband/partner. 
 

he can't sulk and hide from this. Bio dads even rain hell on their minor kids if they utter swear words at their bio mum and put the fear of god in their child. 
 

your ss is disrespecting you snd contributing to the disharmony in your home. His swearing was uncalled for and had no consideration for you cleaning the mess caused by the dog. It wasn't the end of the world for ss to wait a few seconds or a minute whilst you cleaned up, it wasn't gonna be the end of the world for him to go around etc but instead he told you to shut the fuck up

CLove's picture

Feral Forger SD23. Im so glad that shes out. Once they move out (on their own) its much easier.

The parents fail and then expect the world to take on their failures.

They dont suddenly grow new personalities.