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Submitted by MissJulsie on Wed, 06/16/2021 - 6:01pm

So, it looks - at this stage - like DH and I might be on the verge of entering a time of going through a trial separation.

Over the years, SO much has happened. So many dramas, so many fights, so much bitter gossip between so many parties, so much counselling.......

And as this chapter looks like it might be coming to a close, I have found myself sitting and doing a lot of reflection.

Why does being put 'second' hurt so much?

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Submitted by MissJulsie on Tue, 01/19/2021 - 2:55pm

So, DH has a family reunion coming up this weekend. All the extended family are all driving from various different places, and meeting up in a country town that is central to everyone's locations. DH and I were discussing where to stay (Book accomodation? Stay with his sister?).  At no time leading up to this, did he even mention SS17 coming.  But he sprung it out of the blue yesterday, and said "Well he will want to come". I was taken aback, and said "Well if he's coming, then I'm not".