Am I wrong to want to know these kind of things?
For those of you that have minor skids stayng with you on a regular basis (SD is here 10 days a month come hell or high water) do you think your DH should share with you some things about BM? I don't need to know every little bit of her life but last night I found out that his ex just put a "for sale" sign up. I only know this becuase I overheard (well really just heard since we are all out to dinner at the same table) SD tell her family this bit of news. I sat there feeling like an idiot for not knowing this.
Turns out SD and DH have known for about a month she was going to be doing this. But DH never felt the need to tell me. When I confronted him just now and simply said "Why didn't you tell me BM is moving?' He jumped on me so hard and fast! Yelling and acting super pissed off! I guess I'm not supposed to give a shit or know anything about SD and BM. Actually I'm not guessing, becuase that is exactly what he said!
I tried to explan that BM's actions affect SD which in turns affect DH whichthen trickles down and affects me and our relationship. He refused to admit that. Funny though how things started gettign REALLY bad with us this past month. Maybe if he told me things right away I would know what the hell is going on inside his brain.
And lucky me we get to play "happy family" tonight at dinner since this is his weekend with SD....