A rare rant about BM
I rarely post about her becuase for the most part I have zero interaction with her, DH hates to talk about her, and compared to so many BM's on here she is very normal but she's been on a roll pissing me off lately.
a) She bought SD a car (before she even had her license) but said she didnt want her working until MAYBE next summer. Way to teach her about responsibilities! She said she wanted her to concentrate on her studies. HA! She never has homework! What little this lame school gives her she gets done every day in study hall. Of course I am equally annoyed at how my DH just rolls over and doesn't insist SD get a job. I can see it now - every other weekend handing over money to her so she can have gas money! I can also predict that even though she will have a car she wont leave this house all weekend!
b) BM knew SD was sick last week. Yes I am annoyed that DH tried to keep it from me but he did admit he knew I would have freaked out so he was hoping and praying it was just allergies. BM doesnt care how sick SD is she would hand off to us if she was in a coma!
c) SD is going next Monday to get her license, She has had the appt for weeks. Well BM told DH last night (right as we were about to go nto a nice restuarant for dinner) that she cant take her becuase she has a zoom meeting for her anxiety at that time! Give me a F'ing break!!! Getting your license is a big deal but as usual her own selfish needs come first. And the only reason she has anxiety is becuase she has no man and hates her job PLUS I am sure she is counting down the months till SD is 18 and the money train comes to a screeching halt (alimoney and CS). So DH got super pissed and has to miss work to take SD now next week.
In my opinion BM's are BM's (divorced moms) becuase they were shitty wives and mothers to start! She has always been lazy, selfish and entitled! And SD is going to grow up just liek her!