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Does it ever stop!

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Now that we're going for full custody BM is swearing that she's living in a homeless Shelter and not with her ex. That doesn't make sense, why would she ask to have her 8 week summer visitation with SS if she's in a homeless shelter with her other 3 kids and why would she think that we'd allow SS to live in a homeless shelter for 2 months?

Now she's also stating that she's going to move out of state again to her cousins. She is so unstable that we can't figure out what she's thinking.

I'm calling CPS on BM

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for the sake of her other kids. My Fiancee and I had to go to the court house today in order to get copies of all of BMS Domestic Violence Cases and Criminal Cases for our hearing (they are public records). The report she wrote about the ex that she moved to get away from and than moved back in with when she moved back is horrible!

BM has forced us to go for full custody

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BM is completely crazy, so she finally admits that she's back in town and we said fine lets get this visitation stuff changed. Oh but here is the kicker she's back in town and she wants SS for the full 8 weeks she was allocated when she lived in Vegas! We explained to her that the visitation paperwork was for when she lived in another state not when she lives 4 blocks from us.

BM moved back into town and didn't tell us

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she actually told SS to keep it a secret from his father when she talked to SS last night. Stupid as she is she forgot to tell him to keep it a secret from me.

Why would she move back into town and not tell us? I've got a feeling she's up to something and I'm not sure what. I mean she's going to have to say something eventually unless she doesn't plan on changing the visitation schedule.

Feeling the Mother's Day blues

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I didn't think I'd care about Mother's Day (this is the first one since we got SS full-time). SS got home from school today and wanted to show me what he made at school for Mother's Day, they made some cut flower pen in a pot filled with beans. I told him what a good job he did and said all the right things. Well that wasn't the only thing he made...

They also made a card where they got to fill in information about there mom, SS's said...

I'm giving him back the ring

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It's been over 2 years and I can't take anymore. All we ever do lately is fight and it's always about BM or SS. I'm tired of having to put our lives on hold because of BM and her inability to live a dram free life. I'm also tired of taking care of SS when all I get is grief from him and Fiancee (soon to be ex) doesn't discipline (he states he doesn't know how).

The wedding is off

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for now. We were eloping to Hawaii in August and SS was going to stay with BM in Vegas, now it seems that she won't confirm if she's going to take him.

Fiancees family doesn't live near us so we can't have them watch him and my family lives in another country. Fiancee doesn't want to ask friends because he doesn't feel comfortable with it and I don't want to take SS with us to our wedding/honeymoon.

Is she required to give us her address?

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The psycho BM is moving back into the state and wants to change visitation, that's no thte problem. The problem is that she won't give us her physical address. We're worried that she's living with her ex and they've had 3 domestic violence scenes where the police were called and my fiancee had to go and pick-up his son.

Isn't she required to give us the address? We can't get in to see our lawyer until Monday so I'm hoping someone here will know.

Thanks!

Can she keep me from SS?

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So BM is coming back to town. Fiancee and I have decided to do a modified visitation plan with her with a court appointed mediator. If she won't do that than we'll go to court.

The problem we are having is that she keeps leaving voicemails saying that when Fiancee works late she wants SS with her, she doesn't want me watching him. Thats insane and Fiancee is pissed and said no way.

Is it possible for her to do that? If she kept SS on days Fiancee worked late than SS would just get to be a angry kid that's failing school, which is what he was before we got custody of him.

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