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I guess food is an issue lately with DH's

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A client of mine sent us some filet mignon steaks, DH was at home when the arrived, he started talking about making them for dinner for him and SS. I told him that I was saving the stakes for us to have a specil romantic dinner this weekend just DH and me.

DH was upset that I was leaving SS out. I explained to him that the steaks were expensive and with as much as SS eats there would not be enough for everyone. I also explained to him that I wanted us to have a romantic dinner together but he still got upset that I was leaving SS out.

Can someone help me with a child support question PLEASE

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I could ask our lawyer but she's out of town.

My DH didn't know that SS was his son until SS was 5 years old, before than BM told some other guy that he was the father and took that guy to court for child support and put this other guys name on the birth certificate.

It wasn't until my DH saw SS for the first time that he knew that he was his son (they look alike) and he forced BM to let him do a paternity test. Of course it turned out that SS was his son.

Am I a horrible person?

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My SS is visiting his mom for the week and I love it. I love not having to talk over him, having a clean house, not having a 9 year whinning all the time or running his mouth (he's a real smart ass and has to have the last word in).

I also love the fact that my DH is so much more affectionate and loving when SS is gone. Sometimes I wish BM would just take SS back full-time. I hate the responsibility and I feel like all the crap from having SS full-time is killing my marriage.

Am I over reacting?

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My DH and I decided to try and see if we can make things work. BM is starting to take SS every other weekend and we are trying to spend time together.

Well DH and BM decided that SS would spend Thanksgiving at BM's house and we'd drop him off on Wednesday at 2PM. She was suppose to call us on Saturday to confirm and finalize plans. Well it's now Monday and she hadn't called. Therefore I cancelled my plans for the week of Thanksgiving because DH has to work the day after Thanksgiving and Sunday.

Getting a divorice

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I can't take it anymore. I'm tired of feeling alone in my own marriage and I'm sick of being the only one in this relationship that is trying to make changes and work on this marriage.

I'm also tired of SS and his his constant disrepect and the damn BM that is a total nut job and never thinks about her children and only herself.

I'm so stressed I'm making myself sick, haven't been able to do anything for myself and I'm tired of it... I want my life back and the person I was before DH. It's time I started thinking for me and me only.

Can't get any time alone!

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My DH and I just can't seem to get time together since we got SS full-time and it's really putting a strain on our marriage.

My SS came to live with us last year because BM moved out of the state to get away from yet another domesticly violent relationship. During that time he visited her twice and BM waited tot he last minute to make those plans so DH ended up working late while SS was gone to accomodate drop offs and pick-ups at the airport.

Question about phone visitation

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We currently don't have in the visitation paperwork that BM is allowed phone visitation but we were trying to be nice and try to make SS available everynight to talk to BM. However last Saturday we went out to dinner and to the park and so we missed her call. We got home late and SS was tired so we didn't call BM back.

It's now Tuesday and she's talked to SS everynight since Sunday yet she just decided to text my fiance "what happened Saturday! We tried to call SS" She keeps going on and on how we are keeping her from talking to SS etc...

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