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-Mimi-'s picture

I've blocked on facebook for telling off ekdest child for breaking curfew. Her father is too lenient as he overcompensates for the divorce.

I wasnt going to say anything till noticing her lack of apology at the fact we had to actually collect her. She wasnt even embarrassed. I personally would have been humilliated.

As her dad began to tell her off she managed to shut him down. I at this point was so itritated that i told her that

- we cannot protect her if we do not know where she is
- her mom was worried about her and contacting dad (that never ends well)
- if older guys decided to harrass her (or worse), those two male friends she was with couldnt protect her & would likely run off (she knows there are shady guys around the area - having been previously freaked out by one previously)
- her younger sister looks to her as an example
- dad had to leave during the younger sisters story time & bedtime routine (which had been long established since their mother departed)
- her actions were demonstrating that she couldnt be trusted to return upon curfew
- dads phone is always on for them no matter what (she lied to her mom saying her dads phone was switched off. This almost caused an argument between them)

We were walking so she didint give any eye cntact, apologise or acknowledge any of what i'd said.

I was thanked by my beau for what i'd said. I worried that i'd overstepped the boundaries, he reassured that i hadnt.

The next thing i know, i've been blocked from her facebook.

I genuinely do not feel that i said anything wrong. Do you?

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hismineandours's picture

No I don't. Some here will probably tell you its none of your business. But as I see it-you just spoke the truth to her. You basically called her out for being a selfish, immature shit. I am all for disengaging at times, but sometimes I think our disengagement only allows these kids to be even worse behaved.

-Mimi-'s picture

Thank you, i completely agree. This isnt the first time and it wont be the last. I sincerely hooe that she doesnt find the trouble she's looking for. I've been good at letting people take advantage of me.

TASHA1983's picture

If I were in your shoes and my DH's kid was acting like that I would most definitely say something. I would want that kid to know that no matter what our relationship was, good or bad, that they will NOT be acting/talking like that in my presence, and especially not to me, my bio, or my dh. But that is just me & my op.

-Mimi-'s picture

When we first met - i kindly lent her my ipad briefly (so she could skype) and she deleted loads of stuff. I didnt mention it because i coudnt prove it.

chokinonlemons2u's picture

Oh God, the FB " f*k you" by blocking you, lol.

She is acting like a snotty brat. You have every right to speak up about her breaking curfew.