I just don't care anymore.
Per court order DH was suppose to get ss14 this past weekend as normal visitation (EOW rotation), plus receive next weekend for MLK weekend (outlines this holiday in the CO). Well BM decided that's not how she wanted to interpret the CO this year - it's been in place 8 years. She has decided MLK weekend will start the rotation.
DH was all sad that he was losing a weekend with ss. I was trying to be "sad" with him, but really I was excited not to have ss14 3 weeks in a row. However, it is funny that BM failed to look at the calendar when she decided to not follow the CO. Now DH gets ss on his B-day weekend and Mother's Day weekend. DH was always nice and gave up his mothers day weekend to BM so ss could be there. DH said this year he was not doing it.
I'm starting to care less on "being right" and enforcing the CO and more of willing to not fight it because I just don't care if ss is here or not. I turn into an angry person when he is here and hibernate in my room or try to stay busy cleaning or shopping. In return I don't get to spend time with DS or DH.