First time vent about DH
I have never really complained out dh on here but I think he has changed since the baby. Our marriage was perfect, we never had big arguments. Not we argue over the care of the baby. I have DS 5 weeks all day while dh is at work (dh has a nice sit down office job). When dh comes home from work he will only care for bs if I ask him too. We have talked about this a week ago when I said I shouldn't have to ask him to help me. Last time I checked it took both of us to make bs, I should not be the sole care giver. Today he changed 1 diaper, because I took a quick shower.
Other petty things he does that has been annoying me. He will take off his work clothes and leave them laying around. He does this with wrappers, soda cans and dishes. I keep a spotless house, so I get to pick up after my dh31. Tonight was a breaking point - dh left a mess upstairs, gave me bs (who was crying) and said he was going to bed. I walk I to the room 20 minutes later, still with a screaming baby and dh was playing on his phone.
From now on if dh leaves a mess, he will find it the next day in his front seat.
Also I've decided that sat-sun he will have bs the entire time. I've already written him an email explains why. I need him to understand and appreciate what I do all day. Dh will have a cleaning list and will also need to make dinner.
Oh, I forgot to mention, bs has colic.