The dreadful weekend is approaching
Does anything else start to feel a little sick when "that" weekend is approaching? The one that comes every other weekend. I know I do! My husband will come home in a bad mood from picking SS up because he had to see BM. He says he gets physically ill when he just has to look at her. I honestly enjoy that part, it allows me the chance to justify in my head that he traded up. she is probably 260lbs, 5 foot 3, and wears high heels everywhere. Mind you we live in the Midwest and there is 4 feet of snow everywhere. She likes to accessorize the high heels with pink camo clothing - true hillbilly white trailer trash in my mind. when she comes to the car to start stuff (usually she just sits in her POS car), we will roll the window down to see what she needs to say, if its crap we just roll the window up so we cant hear her
The part I dread is having SS12 over. I feel like i'm on high alert when he is here. My DH said the word "sucks" in a sentence and SS told him he wasn't allowed to say those words - WHAT?! This kid will expect that we do something every time he is here to entertain him as well - what happened to the days of just playing outside or playing with toys? He just got all the Lego sets you could think of for Christmas and birthday, go entertain yourself. He will also sneak food into his room and i will find stains later on, and have to get on my hands and knees to scrub them - i'm 7 months pregnant. My house is new, all my furniture is new, and he has no respect for anything in this house. He is doing this vomiting thing on command pretty much, and expects daddy to feel bad for him. He never makes it to the toilette, I cleaned it up a few times. I started to catch on to him game and my DH disagreed with me. So now DH has to clean it up, and he has a weak stomach. Pretty sure SS will be cleaning it up very soon, or miraculously he will be healed!
The only time SS will speak to me is by asking me if I have to work today. When I say no, he sighs. I do not feel very welcomed in my own home on the weekends. I know everything that we do here gets reported back to the BM.