SO pushing for more time with me and skids
As I've said in previous blogs, I stay at my SO's place about once a month when the SD's are there. SD16 drives me absolutely bonkers, so I made the choice to step back a bit.
In the last few weeks, however, SO has really been pushing for me to spend more time with him at his place when the teen girls are there. My sisters think he just wants to spend more time with me. They think I should just ask him why he wants me there, but how can I say that I hate being around SD16, a weird teen who follows me everywhere, talks about her mom incessantly, tries to come into the bedroom when we're having sex, and nonstop talks about herself all the damn time? Plus constant "what are we going to do", and fits when it's not what she wants. (And she always gets what she wants). I've told him before that she can be overwhelming, and they need time together without me. I can't say I dislike her, so that's why I don't want to come over.
Do you think he just wants to see me more often? I admit I tend to see the negative, like maybe I take the pressure off of him when I'm there because SD16 pays so much attention to me, and thinks of it has treat time when I'm there. (More likely time go out to eat and do special activities). He recently told me he can't afford to retire (lol age difference) because of child support. So I get really paranoid and wonder if he's trying to warm me up to moving in again.
Am I overthinking this?