PAS and Grandparents?
BM hates my SO's parents. SD16 uses word for word phrases from BM to complain about them before each visit: "You should have warned me they were coming." "I have to wash off their smell after." "Nana, your dinners aren't as good as mommy's."
SD12, who I don't talk about as much because she really is a gem of a human being, just hides away in her room to cry, or curls up alone on a chair when she's made to come downstairs.
BM's parents (still together) have pulled knives on each other! SO's parents have been married 50 years, travelled the world, and are genuinely kind people.
So far there's no PAS against me, because I'm not around enough, but BM tells the girls their dad is stupid all the time. These poor girls have both sets of grandparents alive - why deprive them of that? My poppa passed away last year, and I wish I could have seen him one last time to sneak a chocolate and razz (affectionately) my mom together. He really was a cantankerous old bugger but the biggest sweetheart.
It breaks my heart.