Ladies (and Gents), talk me down
I want to lose it on my SO. His ex wife's bday is coming up, and the skids asked him to pick up their present for her. I get that this happens in divorced families. HOWFKINGEVER, he went out by himself, bought this special birthday gift request, and while doing so received a text from BM asking him to pick up a few other special items for her. HE DID. And then delivered them to her home with a card he bought for the skids, and hid it away so the skids can say it was a "surprise". He told this to me in front of my coworkers, who had secondhand embarrassment for me. It's humiliating, and he does this shit ALL THE TIME. Always doing repairs, running errands because it's "for the skids".
I had no time to say anything other than "that's bizarre". I like to think things through before reacting, and I've always told him he can talk to me about anything. I've given him so much grace about her because she was abusive. BUT FCK ME, SHUT UP ABOUT HER.