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Emotional Infidelity?

meanstepmom's picture

My husband puts my SD27 first and foremost in anything and everything. Truly pissed and tired of reoccurring events that make her look like an angel and me a nagging wife. Not even speaking tonight after a situation in which I confronted him for hiding (not telling me) their plans today on his birthday and I was babysitting the grandchild.
Any advice?

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twoviewpoints's picture

Wait. Did I read this correct. Your Dh and his daughter27 made plans to celebrate his birthday and you are to stay home and babysit SGC? :jawdrop:

You're not really sitting there now with the grandkid, are you. Please say you're not.

IslandGal's picture

:jawdrop: What the goddamn frack???!! Tell me you're not babysitting her kid? Good Lord, this is friggin' insane!! can you call her hubby/partner/boyfriend? Your DH needs a solid kick up his inconsiderate ass!!!

robin333's picture

Your DH is sneaking with SD to make plans that exclude you and relegate you to babysitter?
Wtf did he say to you when you confronted him?!

The only reason I can think of why they could ever sneak would be to plan a surprise for you. That doesn't sound remotely possible in your post.

Stop babysitting. No exception. Go stand Ina mirror and tell yourself that you are a Queen and will not be treated like anything else by your man. Repeat until you feel it.

Justme54's picture

The old saying goes do not bite the hand that feeds you. NO FREE RIDES ON BABYSITTING...no more, no more, no more.

Your DH and SD have BALLS the size of TEXAS. LET ME GUESS, I am sure daddy PAID for his birthday outing with his baby girl. OMG!

You need to tell DH...A...I am your wife NOT a doormat...B. Hell will freeze over before I babysit Grand SS AGAIN.

HUGS TO YOU....THAT WAS UGLY!