So here I am, I just moved 350 miles to be with the man that I love. 4 1/2 months ago, after being together long distance for almost 2 1/2 years. His girls and I, ages 12 and 16 used to get along fantastically. Until I moved north and we got a bigger, nicer house. Then the sociopathic ex wife decided she didn't like that fact that her girls wanted to spend most of their time over here. And that's when the brainwashing begun. She got to the girls. The elder was convinced that I was bad for her, and her father didn't trust her, yards yadda yadda.