i feel unappericated and exhusted by the sk i have helped raised for 9yrs and till today and the years to come, it seems like i have to fight them all the time to get a point across and im over it really i am, it took us to 3 1/2 yr to fight there bm in court for them to be where they are right now they forget about that,and the amount of love put on to them during that time and since we been together, it just seems like when everything is going right for us everything is going wrong in there eyes, and i feel for my dh as he has to listen to all of us

sd18 sd15 ss12 and all i get is the flack from them when the dh not here, the sd18 is moved out and still expects the world from bd and wants him to jump when she cries help,she said she has lost her bd to me and i told she lost no1 i have lost my dad to heaven that harder,
here a prime example for sd15 we went halves in her laptop that was a swt as birthday present now the 18sd wants bd to get her driving lessons and he pay for it i dont think so i said only half we pay for and she pay the other she didnt like that and hated the fact i even knew what she was wanting i told her there are not just her and other siblings there is also the kids dh and i have together

and the sd15 is crying for attention by no1 gives it and ss always asks question about his mother and i told him he can ring her not ask me im not sure if he intentally does or not i really think she gets those mindgames from is bm

or do i need counselling help? what do people recommended?