Surprise surprise (advice please)
So after DH receiving no reply whatever for over a week I messaged SD and asked if she'd spoken to her mom about next weekend. She said her mom mad plans so she can't come. She didn't have plans a week ago but during the weeks time we're waiting on a reply she made plans. I told her I was sorry she did that and we'll keep trying to see her whenever we can. But that we'll post pone the bike trip we hope to have planned for next summer to the following summer when she's legally able to come without permission. She said her moms okay with that and that she just made plans for this weekend is all. Though this is a habit of her moms and she has does this kind of stuff for years. I didn't reply. Idk what to say. I don't want to dog her mom and I don't want to be a B@&$h so how do I reply? I can let DH do it I guess but getting him to invite her himself was hard enough. He really doesn't like the drama with her mom. And just avoids it.