Bribing custodial parent for visitation
Is this a bad idea? I'm thinking since DH really wants to avoid court and if things get messy it'll end badly most likely. So maybe have DH message BM and offer her some extra under the table CS at the end of weekend visitations? Is that a horrible idea? How much would be appropriate to offer? We wouldn't want to offer too much obviously. Moneys not exactly endless here. And they're not really struggling at all but who couldn't use more money? I think it mite work. Especially if she thinks it's something her and my DH come up with and not me lol. She hates me so much. Idk. Just thinking. After seeing SD and knowing all the past. I just feel so bad. She's almost 16 but she's only a freshman and she's got so many more years of living under her moms control. And if she stays stuck it could easily last (being moms puppet) well into adulthood.