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mamabear3's picture

So decided to try out the new site and make a post.  I'm still debating on if I like it or not.  I don't like that I can't save my password but that could be a browser issue.  I will have to investigate later.

We go to court next Wed for the custody hearing.  I talked to the lawyer and she seems pretty positive we are going to win.  She is putting me on the stand since I am an eye witness to a bunch of stuff and I am super nervous.  Hopefully it will go smoothly.

DH talked to BM last night.  She accused him of not letting her talk to SS when she called the other day at 4pm.  He had told her to call at 6 because he will be home by then.  Apparently she doesn't remember that.  I tuned a lot of their conversation out.  DH usually gives me a play by play of the important stuff.  

So she is scheduled to go into Rehab tomorrow.  DH found out this was because he PO is making her go for a minimum of 6 months.  So we may have some piece and quiet for that time frame.

I didn't get all the specifics but BM punched her ExDH 3 times yesterday.  He called the cops on her and they had her in handcuffs but her grandma told the police she didn't punch him.  I don't know who to believe on this one.  I really think BM and Grandma is super crazy now. 

Another note, I am seriously beginning to have my doubts on how severe SS autism is, if he even has it at all.  He was pretty much deaf for the first two years of his life and that has caused a delayed speech problem.  I doubt BM was working with him on anything.  I think DH is going to have him reevaluated after we get him into school for a little bit and work on his speech. I don't know much about autism but he just isn't displaying the typical stuff.  He will look you in the eye and maintain eye contact. He is very affectionate.  He is constantly jabbering about something especially when he is excited about something.  He is extremely smart but he doesn't seem to concentrate on just one thing.  He does have a fascination with water.

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Tiger7's picture

That BM is a train wreck.  Good luck with your SS...hope all works out

Maxwell09's picture

Well if she's going to be a no-show because she is in rehab and was just recently arrested, then go ahead and prepare for sole custody coming your way. Mentally unstable (rehab is proof) parents usually lose legal authority of their children and then with her being away and unable to care for him, he will be with y'all. While you're there, you should go ahead and have your lawyer come up with a supervised visitation schedule for the judge to approve for after she gets out of rehab.

mamabear3's picture

Supervised visitation is already included and she will have to pass a hair folicle or nail drug test before she can take him for unsupervised.