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I haven't been on here in a while. A little background as a reminder. We got custody of my stepson 2 years ago. He is non verbal autistic. I also have three kids of my own with my husband.

My stepson broke his tv and my husband blamed my other two sons for not watching him. We are currently in a standoff because he is wrong for this. Its not my sons job to watch their brother. He did it with a bat that he shouldnt have had. And yes it would have been nice if they would have came and told me he had it but they are 5 and 6.

1st Hill completed

So as of Friday, we got all of SS insurance stuff straightened out. His SSI is fixed, his insurance is fixed. EVERYTHING is fixed!!!! We can now get him into see the PCP to catch up on his Well child checkups and get him into school. I am so excited!!! I haven't dealt with social security much before so this was all new to me and DH. We had already scheduled his checkup for May 2th and were just going to bite the bullet and find the money to take him out of pocket just so we could get his therapy started sooner. So now he should be able to start everything in about 2 weeks!

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Should I feel sorry for her?

So BM grandma sent me, DH, BM Ex-DH and apparently everyone at her church the following message:

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My heart hurts for SS

So BM got out of rehab on the 6th. Surprise surprise. I was secretly hoping she would stay and get her life straightened out for her kids. But that's neither here nor there.

My heart seriously hurts for SS. He deserves a mother that is strong and doesn't fall into drugs all the time. He deserves someone who isn't going to break promises and will be steadfast in his life.

Grandma Again...

So I get a facebook message from SS grandma over the weekend. It reads as follows:

Did you have to go for custody when BM was in Rehab!! It nearly killed her, they had to sedate her and she is now going thru mental therapy to get thru this. I'm glad SS is doing well and I love him but he needs his mom and she needs him. Even if it's visitation.

My response:

Her mental or physical well being is not our problem. We are looking out for SS and only SS. He is our number 1 priority.

She responded with her new number in OR and said she missed us.

I'm a list person

BM has completely stressed me out and she's not even contacted DH in a few.

Friends

so BM called DH talking about how special ss is and how she’s gonna get custody back when she gets out. I thought the drama would at least be quiet while she’s in there. But no...

anyways I text my best friend and tell her what happened and she responds with well some people have fav with their kids. I respond with no if I lost my kids I would be fighting for all of them not just one. And then I ask her why she’s defending BM. She then comes back with well I’m just gonna leave this.

SS PCP

So I called SS PCP yesterday to see what we needed to do about getting all his medical records. I explained that DH had won custody on Wed and we are trying to get everything together. I am thinking the doctor office really didn't like BM. They were all excited that DH had won custody and all the progress we were making with him. They made the comment "all he needed was someone to take an interest in him".

Anyways I found out that she never took him for his last checkup so now his checkups are going to be thrown off. He's behind on his shots so joy joy.

Hearing

we went to the custody hearing today. She didn’t show up since she’s obviously in rehab. The lawyer made sure dh told what day she went into rehab since it was after the 30 days were up.

Gave the judge everything we had on her. And DH now has full custody and got awarded the right to change ss last name to his.

BM found out and she is absolutely livid. She’s already saying that she’s going to get it overturned. But the judge in that county doesn’t change custody lightly so there is no way she will be able to. Especially since me and DH are solid.

Login

So I checked my browser and figured out how to save my login. I use Chrome so other browsers may be different. On Chrome, there is a key in the address bar by the star when you go to login. If you click it after you enter you login information, it will ask you if you want to save your password. Now it's already filled in for me and I just click login.

Other browsers, you can google how to save a password. It's usually pretty simple. I'm not sure on phones though. I rarely get on on my phone.

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