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"Husbands, wives and lovers may come and go, but kids go on forever."

Just got off the phone with ysd35's aunt. She's trying to open up communication between us and dh. She's also the same bitch that was gloating at ysd's wedding how great it was to have a guy bm fucked while still being married to dh walk ysd down the aisle. She didn't know I was in the stall and yes I had to walk out of said stall. The look was priceless.

ot need advice semi ethical conundrum

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I was adopted at birth some 45 odd years ago. I can't have kids. Up until about 6 years ago I had pretty much no contact with bio family.

I found bio mom and sent her a letter, she called me back. We talked for awhile. She didn't mention my sisters and was very concerned about other people finding out about me. She told me my father was a conveniently dead guy and basicly lied about inheritable diseases. And yet she wrangled a promise of no other contact from me. and she never even told me her maiden name.

Has this ever happened to you?

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For awhile, when SD was 31, she would tell my stories as her own. If I got sick, she would have the same thing. While it was interesting watching her try to work in chickungunya and menopause, it was very fucking creepy. Single white female creepy. I never called her out on it, should have.

I caught Sgs21 doing the same thing, co-opting one of my stories. I busted him on it right in front of the person he was telling it to. I told him to go get his own experiences.

the karma bus has taken SS38 for spin bwahahaha

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I just got off the phone talking to SS. He is living with a woman with three kids g17, b18, g26. She cannot have any more kids thank goddess.

When SS was a teen we pushed him into joining JobCorp cause I got tired of sleeping with a gun under my pillow because of all the lowlifes he would bring home and try to let stay. And I got tired of fixing holes he punched in walls. His teen years were tough.

But i don't know when it is due

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Due to sgs21 being on academic probation, I been a little more interested in his classes than before. So I asked him about a 6 page essay I know is due. I even know when it is due and I know he hasn't started it. I'm psychic that way.

He told me he didn't know the due date. So I told him. He asked how I knew. Read the syllabus. He admitted he never did that. Facepalm.

wtf

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So sgs21 is currently sporting a 1.09 gpa. Until he can show improvement dh and I will not be paying tuition. We know why he got in deep. He had his very first gf and then she dumped him. He didn't know how to handle it. Not an excuse to fail everything. He was carrying 9hrs and working 14 hours a week with dh and 20hra or less at another job. And he lives with us. So he got room and board and tuition provided he worked weekends with dh and maintained a "c".

He can continue to stay and work w/dh and his other gig, pay his own tuition. He can do the work, he just didn't.

psychic

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Ever have those moments right before the phone rings and you know who it is without looking or you start thinking about someone you haven't heard from in a long time and they contact you out of the blue?

That's been happening alot lately.

Started thinking about ysd and like a virus she texts. Haven't spoken to her since she tried to con me into footing the travel costs to have osd's youngest visit her. About a year.

So she texts me about her highschool friend committing suicide. She's 35. I've only met this person maybe 3x's. I have no connection to him.

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