I have been involved many times over with ladies that had a child or children. Each one has been different and some better than others. At the end I walked away with a unique lesson or lessons learned. None of them have any contact with me today. None of these relationships has prepared me for this teenage 18 year old MAN. The situation is most unique. Im sure its not different from all others. But , my well diversified experence has not seen it. Im 47. Im having no more kids. All I want to do this go around, the last go, is have a good marriage and be a good step parent.