Bm in denial
Hi everyone please bare with me because this is my first blog
i have been dealing with my SO Bm for almost a year now and she is refusing to change. She is money hungry and just keeps telling my SO that i am a temporary thing. She constantly uses the child to control him and I am getting fed up. She wants to try to control what goes on in our household from bedtimes and calling him everyday I'm the one that suggested we start getting him accommodated in his own bed so he has his own space and she has completely taken control of that in our house how my SO has to sleep in a tiny toddler bed (he is 6 feet) with him till he falls asleep no matter what hour and so on. She continues to have so many bad affects on our relationship because she's trying to get in between even though she is seeing another person. It is a diff issues once a week and she will drag it out for the whole week till the next issue. Am I wrong for wanting to set her in her place after all the negative comments he is telling me that she says about me every day? I am ready to continue my life with him but I am starting to want to give up. I feel like my input will have her keep my SO son away from him and cause him to be depressed like she has before. What do I do?