so after going to court AGAIN to set up court-ordered telephone times for dh and sd10, he still doesn't get to talk to her! i told dh to go back to court but he is just so fed up with all of it. but what did he expect? that bb was just going to turn over a new leaf and try to do what is right for her daughter, and not what is soooo fun for her? hardly. she loves control, as i told dh, and this is just another way to get 'back' at him for leaving her and causing her to make such a miserable, white trash life for herself. geeesh! what sucks is that dh and myself have to go two weeks without talking to sd and it's just not fair! dh has told sd to call him whenever she wants to but either she just doesn't think about it or she isn't allowed. she has told me before that bb gets mad when she talks about her dad a lot....real nice parenting there, wouldn't you say? i try not to let my mind ponder WHY she is this way and HOW we can change it, because i've been here 8 years now and nothing i have done or said has changed anything. so why waste my breath? i don't talk to her or look at her ugly mug, so why can't i let her just fall away from my mind like any other useless info?? i know, i know, because i love my sd!!!! and i hate to think that she is becoming more and more like her twisted, scorned, white trash mother! but anyway, what should we do about the phone conversations? go back to court?
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