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counseling update

lmdavi0's picture

so dh went to his individual counseling session the other day and shared bb's latest excursion into the city (her stalking halloween appearance). the counselor was freaked out. he sent the judge a letter informing him that dh has completed his counseling and that he doesn't think it would be good to continue joint counseling at this point in time. hallelujah. then the counselor began talking about how his last session with bb he really got her to open up and how detrimental her childhood was and blahdy, blah, blah, blah. WHO CARES?! sorry. Smile i am glad she finally opened up considering she flat-out lied about her childhood and how 'great' her parents were. the counselor also told dh that she 'definitely had control issues.' uh, duh!!! Wink so the ball is rolling. hopefully by next week we will hear something from the judge and hopefully have a court date set up. we won't see her for t-day but definitely for xmas! i just pray that she doesn't hate us. i mean, we haven't seen or talked to her since june!!!!!! her mom is crazy!!!!!!!!
sorry again. so please keep us in your prayers, as you all are always in mine.
p.s. the counselor called bb that day after dh's session to tell her about no more co-counseling for a while and that dh had completed his required sessions. he does, however, want them to pick up joint counseling again once he works out some 'issues' with bb individually. anywho, bb called my phone that night. i didn't answer, she didn't leave a message. don't call me, bitch, i ain't gonna answer.
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Colorado Girl's picture

Good for you!!! I hope you get to see her by Christmas. What a wonderful Christmas present that would be. Smile

I got my fingers crossed for you.XXXXXXXXX

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain."

mckenzie0806's picture

do get to see her for Xmas! That WOULD be a GREAT present. I wish someone would order us to counseling. We have suggested several times, but the BM has said no. I really think that she is afraid of what my SD would say about her BM's actions. Good luck to you!!!!