Why can’t I connect with his children?!?
I need someone who can relate. I can’t seem to bond with my soon to be SS they are 2 and 4. I have 3 kids of my own a16 and 12 year old daughters and a 9 year old son Who is mildly intellectually disabled. My BFs 4 year old is out of control He has been kicked out of five day cares in one school. Has mom refuses to get him help. He has such violent Behavior. I feel I have to protect my son from him. We got a report from daycare saying that he spent and the teachers face four times ripped glasses off of the kids face punched another kid climbed on the chairs running and screaming down the hall. I had my bf call his ex to come up with a disciplinary plan. She said I don’t know what you want me to do about it he’s not a dog I can just Rub his face in it and spank him. His only 4!! So now the 2 year old is following in his footsteps. Every Tuesday and Thursday and every other Saturday is a night mare!!! I feel so bad I can’t bond with them. I feel like since I can’t bond with them I shouldn’t marry their father !! I just don’t know what to do anymore!!!!!!!